“But I don’t understand! I don’t understand how this all happens, how we go through this. I mean - I knew her, and then she’s … there’s just a body, and I don’t understand why she just can’t get back in it and not be dead anymore! It’s stupid! It’s mortal and stupid! And … and Xander’s crying and not talking, and … and I was having fruit punch, and I thought, ‘Well, Joyce will never have any more fruit punch - ever, and she’ll never have eggs, or yawn, or brush her hair, not ever,’ and no one will explain to me why.”

Buffy the Vampire Slayer - 5x16 - The Body